If you want things to get better in your life, the first step to take is to stop whining and complaining.
Everyone deals with “stuff” (some more serious than others) and we all need that friend or sister that we can feel free to just unload to. That’s okay. But when you just wallow around in it….. blame other people…. and claim “it’s just my personality” as your excuse, it is time to get over it. (I can be blunt about this because I have fallen into this a few times myself)
It’s time to grow by focusing on what you can do for others and not on how everything is so unfair to you or how you deserve more. It is a choice. 🙌🏼